Discontentment from the daughter of the King?
I compare myself to others. Sometimes, it seems they have it better than I do.
- Better relationships.
- Better connections.
- Better opportunities.
When I get into this funk, I think about it day in and day out.
I have to talk it out and empty myself of my frustrations–whether in my journal or with someone I trust. Eventually, I come back to Truth: God’s plans for me are unique (Jeremiah 29:11). They are unlike the plans He has for anyone else.
It may appear that they have it better, but their better is not necessarily my best. That’s not to say that God won’t give me those things; it means that God doesn’t want me to settle for better now when I can have His best later. When I believe that every good and perfect gift is from Him (James 1:17), my internal satisfaction is independent of my external circumstances. I am content with what I have and where I am now.
God is the King, and I am His daughter. He has plenty to go around. He may choose to bless other sons and daughters now. When I am content, I am blessed now–and later.
Come alongside… In what areas of life do you compare yourself with others? How can you learn to be content with what you have now?